January 22, 2022 @ 11:00am
An unfamiliar depth of love has opened in this person. It feels scary and likely to change her life. What’s happening and where will it take her?
You Don’t Need Self-Esteem
When: February 2, 2017 @ 1:30am
Where: India, Tiruvannamalai
Topics: Feelings & Emotions
In this meeting John explains to the questioner how fear comes from a distortion in your self. He goes on to speak about how having self esteem is not necessary to evolve in your heart.
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