“Fear not. Lay hold and love.” Moving into the deep, within, requires laying hold of what you know has apprehended you. John explains how that can change everything.
Location: Yehiam
Being a ‘love team’ sounds so good! But what does it take to be in such profound harmony with another, and how would it change both you and your relationship?
Q: A long time ago when we spoke about my mind and thoughts, you invited me to be like a flower with my mind. I still feel that what I am and my mind are not coordinated. John: You are the flower. Let the…
This person is feeling pain and fear around a big life change she wants to make, but her partner doesn’t. How can this be resolved, and what really matters?
“It’s like letting in the most powerful truth virus.” John explains what he means when he speaks of the calling, and what matters most in responding to its subtle, electromagnetic draw.
Q: When it comes to educating my child, I feel that I’m not being heard unless I raise my voice. John: If you need to raise your voice to be heard, that tells you that when you speak she doesn’t believe you. Q: She…
Q: What is the calling and how does one surrender completely? What is the right expression of it? It seems that anything else is irrelevant. John: Why do you bring up the calling? What is it to you? Q: There’s something that I awakened…
Q: I experience my self as a very shy person. How I can adjust my shyness so that it doesn’t restrict me in certain situations? John: Don’t adjust it or change it. Don’t cover it. Don’t be ashamed of it, and whatever that restricts…
What is the connection between opening the heart and love-making? When you open and soften in your heart, you discover the deeper levels. The woman pours her mystery and the man reads her and receives. Together, you get to know what you really are. Together, you are making what love is.
The questioner feels connected to her heart when she is being silent, but when she speaks she feels disconnected. How to speak from the heart? John explains how we are able to open our hearts in the midst of our life, regardless of the experience in our selves. We are able to not close even when there’s pain or discomfort. If we are okay with the cost of that, our selves will change, grow, develop, and purify.
An informal, lively dialogue opening up the topic of sexual appetite versus real lovemaking, and the necessity of moving in what you really know.
John de Ruiter speaks about the basics of his teaching, describing how awareness naturally relaxes and reaches deeper levels of consciousness.
