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“When you’re sailing you feel the whole boat, you feel all the tensions and you’re also in touch with the pressure on the keel.

You have a sense of all the stresses within the entire boat, including the stresses that are unseen beneath the water because the keel registers into the rest of the boat.”

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The Inner Quietude of You

January 22, 2022 @ 11:00am

An unfamiliar depth of love has opened in this person. It feels scary and likely to change her life. What’s happening and where will it take her?

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John de Ruiter Podcast 491

Freed from the Illusion of Loss

May 30, 2018 @ 7:00pm

In this delicate meeting, John shows this person how he can be free of an illusory, long-held story of loss that has become physicalized in his body.

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What Can I Do About My Anger?

November 16, 2022

Q: I have a longing for wholeness and integration, and an awareness of a lot of suffering and chaos caused by self-avoidance. I know there’s massive anger sitting in my gut. How can it be integrated into my being, and how can that become stable in the midst of everything that triggers it? John: All of the anger shows...

Q: I have a longing for wholeness and integration, and an awareness of a lot of suffering and chaos caused by self-avoidance. I know there’s massive anger sitting in my gut. How can it be integrated into my being, and how can that become stable in the midst of everything that triggers it?

John: All of the anger shows you right where you don’t need what you want, where you really don’t need to have your way. Anger shows you where you want control that you really don’t need.

Where you have anger or any kind of disturbance in your self, it shows you exactly where your beliefs are. Your beliefs are, right there, being frustrated. 

All of your beliefs are false beliefs, and they all give voice through annoyance, frustration and anger. What dissolves their voice is you opening and softening in your heart as they speak. The openness and softness of heart, your real beingness, opens and softens their voice.

Right there, your beliefs are crumbling and it’s all new and available space for your deeper heart, for what you really are, for your being.

Q: Thank you.

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A Zoom Café Conversation – June 20, 2022

June 20, 2022

“If love means more to you than concern, then love will flow more than concern will move.”   The first level of care for your form is in your orientation Caring for physical health: what is most healing for the body? A gentled heart in the midst of debilitation and pain The value of dying in love exceeds the value of living in concern Pain and difficulty don’t handicap the heart When the deep owns the surface, love is...

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