547 – Profound Honesty: Being Okay When You Don’t Feel Okay
Shame, fear, anger … is it really possible to be okay in any circumstance, even when feeling attacked by others? There is transformative potential, and John explains.
539 – Living the Sweet Vulnerability of True Humanness
Presence and humanness: these two words are opening new depths of vulnerability and aliveness, but how can it be sustained in life, and why was it covered up?
537 – Living Your True Frequency in the Noise of Life
Continuous environmental noise has this person feeling distressed and longing for silence. John shows her how to let go of the fight and enter the intimacy that lies beneath.
528 – The Opening of Your Subconscious: An Internal Climate Change
John reveals the way in which a tiny bit of warmth, openness and softness can bring about inner transformation, even in the midst of an experience of disintegration and vulnerability.
519 – Your Awakening Gives to Existence
Could simply trusting in existence be the key to happiness and peace? Using an analogy from nature, John explains how easy it is draw a false conclusion about the source of awakening and realization.
514 – Love Replacing Fear: Believing What You Know in Your Heart
“If it isn’t natural, immediate and beautifully easy, you’re making it too difficult.” Discover what John is referring to in this conversation about whether intense fear can prevent us from living from the heart.
502 – No Longer a Victim of Your Sensitive Self
Others’ anger in his relationships or at work always leaves this person feeling hurt and guilty. Why is this, and how can he live with his super-sensitivity?
491 – Freed from the Illusion of Loss
In this delicate meeting, John shows this person how he can be free of an illusory, long-held story of loss that has become physicalized in his body.
489 – No Longer Torn: Letting Goodness Choose
This person is feeling pain and fear around a big life change she wants to make, but her partner doesn’t. How can this be resolved, and what really matters?
487 – A Gentled, Quieted Heart: The Answer to Your Longing Within
A constant sense of being in a fight with life and in his relationship is explored in this conversation. What’s missing, and how can it be found?
484 – Your Real, Deeper Happiness
Have you ever felt the victim of a broken agreement? John explains the difference between the hurt that comes with broken trust, and the emotional reactivity in becoming a victim. He exposes the core belief that lies beneath and keeps us dependent on others for our own happiness.
476 – Openness Replacing Your Fears
Despite the overwhelming fear that comes up in this person when she expresses herself, she takes the opportunity to talk with John to find out what’s happening and if it can change.
“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”
– John de Ruiter
