An unusual question and an even more unusual answer, revealing the wondrous complexity of a simple fact to the scientist of love.
Year: 2004
Q: I feel I closed off my sensitivity very young, and later in life closed it off even more. I’d love to connect with it fully, and really live what I know. John: Nurture the little within your self. When you have some measure…
What’s really going on when we’re angry? Instead of relating to external ‘causes’ and working on anger as a problem, John takes us into a shift of perspective. He opens a window through which we can see what in us is of much greater value.
Q: Hello, John. My partner and I have been living together for the past six months. Many times I’ve wondered whether that was kind or skillful because of the pain and suffering that arise in the relationship. If I had had my time over,…
Q: The question “what am I living for?” has been with me a lot in my life. I’ve felt desperate and known I was not living. Now, there is more peace around the desperation. I know there’s truth in that, but I can relax…
Q: I wanted to talk to you about trauma. John: Trauma or drama? Drama creates trauma. Trauma is the damages of drama. Q: I see myself playing with it, and it starts because of feeling that I can’t feel this feeling. I resist feelings…
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• Setting the terms on the most delicate; nurture with accountability
• Crisp goodness instead of meaningless compromise
• Knowing your finest perspective, sustaining your finest perspective
• Addressing every lack, imbalance or distortion
• Seeing, conceptualizing, communicating: unstoppable realness
• Cultivating an advantage for realness
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• Judicious love, profound togetherness
• Most gentled and tender brokenness
• Being the loveliness instead of just having it
• True beingness within the experience of persons
• Benevolent self-control instead of you controlling benevolence
• Giving away your island
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• Intimate knowing instead of a personal foundation
• Your potential as awareness
• Awareness moves inwards by knowing, outwards by thinking
• Meaning to knowing to awareness
• Your calling – spanning your innermost through to your outermost
• Everything matters …
Q: You have been talking about the intellect. I’m not an intellectual type; I’m more oriented to feeling. John: Yet you have an intellect and you can use that to help that which you already know, and you can also feel. Q: I can feel what…
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• The real you instead of an adopted you
• A benevolent custodian of your person
• Your very nature: Profound
• The administrator of meaning and value
• Trusting being tender subtlety
