Q: Could you say something about growing out of negative family patterns and family grief?
John: Warmly, don’t need them anymore. You can’t grow out of anything that serves you. The negative family patterns don’t hold you as you experience that they do. You hold to them as you know you do.
When you cleanly let them go because that’s what deeply within your heart you know to do, and when you’re absolutely surrendered to what you know in your heart in letting go of them because you know you don’t need them anymore – they are not informing you of the truth – what you’d be left with is a most quiet, deep humility instead of the richness of family negativity.
You’ll turn from a somebody to a warm nobody.
