John explains the misunderstanding that’s at work when we’re triggered by someone’s difficult behaviour, and how quickly that experience can change.
Topic: Relationship
Entering a sexual relationship too soon has created suffering for this couple. Is it possible to start over, and build the kind of commitment that will survive the inevitable difficulties?
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October 15, 2023
“Balancing is always interruptive. It interferes with comfort. It interferes with personal ways, with familiar patterns of thinking, familiar feelings.“ Dialogue 1 Relationship: addressing naivety and blindness Patterns live in support of each other; open to the hooks Integrating the left and right…
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August 6, 2023
“You, at home as nothing, in nothing, with nothing. All that’s left of you is that you’re home.” Let your heart show; reducing your personality to the real An “un-guy”; you have no idea what kind of guy to be Hooking up a…
In this meeting, John shares with a married couple the key to real relationship, and how to be and move together in the richness that lies just beneath their personalities.
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July 2, 2023
“A real relationship is about moving together, which can only occur if you’re both coming from the same place and moving in the same direction.” Inexperienced clarity: a lovely clarity lacking wisdom Entering relationship; what innocence cannot see Self-schooled innocence weighs advantage and disadvantage…
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July 2, 2023
“The more that you expand further, your self opens, unravels, expands and ultimately becomes just like you.” Moving with the ripples of knowing; core sincerity does it The wondrous scope of your self; there isn’t an end to it Dissociation of the self; within…
In this detailed and at times humorous dialogue, John reveals the magical bonds of being that occur when one spectrum of consciousness encounters another.
The terms of this man’s new relationship feel frustrating and unacceptable to him. Why is it so painful and what can he do? There’s only one way, and John explains.
Q: I often feel attacked by my father. How can I untangle the knot that’s there in relationship with him? John: Just, sweetly, don’t. Sweetly don’t untangle the knot. When you are so sweetly leaving the whole knot between the two of you alone,…
Being a ‘love team’ sounds so good! But what does it take to be in such profound harmony with another, and how would it change both you and your relationship?
Q: I love what you say about the self being only the vehicle through which innocence and purity naturally express. At the beginning of our relationship, we were both aware of playing a kind of ping-pong game, where the energy went back and forth…
