Positive experience, negative experience, no experience. John shares why experience doesn’t matter, and the value of being quietly at peace, within.
Topic: Introductory
In this Q&A dialogue, the questioner speaks about the emptiness in his heart. He brings it up because he is experiencing a hole, an emptiness, the source of all his addictions, wanting to fill it, and being a victim of it. Watch the video to find out what John says about that emptiness, regardless and despite the distractions one may experience.
An “out of this world” meeting, in which John and the questioner explore what compassion really is.
What is the purpose of humans in this world? What were we brought here to do? A sparkling conversation with a simple answer.
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January 26, 2017
“First, there is no problem, regardless of what your experience tells you. When you’re deeply gentled and settled that there is no problem within, you’re able to address problems, but you’re not doing that for result because you’re home and complete and nothing can…
An exploration of what resistance is made of and how boundaries, judgments and filters all stand between us and our real life.
Watch as John speaks to young adults about how to deal with difficult people at work. John encourages us to deepen in our spiritual awakening rather than relating to the frustration that comes with difficult people in the workplace. When we allow ourselves to develop and mature our spiritual awakening, with time, we grow wiser and become more balanced in learning how to deal with difficult people at work. “If you’re going to be your awakening, I’m giving you the short route.” – John de Ruiter. This is a great introductory talk for people who experience someone being angry at work and want to give feedback but don’t know how.
A conversation that starts with the need to be seen and heard by our parents ends with an explanation of the cause of trauma, and how it’s always possible to return to innocence.
John explains that as soon as you are really listening within, you lose sight of your pain and suffering and magicalness begins to see. Awareness is freed to be the unseen levels of reality, moving and expressing; your return to innocence.
A delicate conversation that explores the difficulties and power struggles that can come up in sexual intimacy.
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October 16, 2016
“And now you have discovered a rabbit hole full of dearness.” Responding to a different kind of sunlight From scared rabbit to happy rabbit No need for understanding, love brings you in Love that you know what streaming is In dying, let your children…
Does the presence of tears mean that you’re being emotional? No, says John, and he goes on to explain what emotions are for and what to look for when we’re deeply touched.
