Questions About Sexuality
“Sexuality isn’t dependent on sex. You don’t need sex for sexuality because sexuality has to do with your real capacity to be one with something.
So if you look at it from that perspective, it’s completely different than your experience of sexuality in terms of the appetite that chemistry brings about in your body. That’s your experience of sexuality. That’s not really what sexuality is.”
Latest YouTube Video on Sexuality
Is the Purpose of Sexuality Different for Men and Women?
June 2, 2018 @ 7:15pm
This woman is touched by John sharing what sexuality is really for and wants to know what it means to be a woman. John shares the subtle differences between man and woman, and shows her how to invite and move in her sexuality anew – this time aligned to the delicacies of its deeper mystery.
Latest Podcast on Sexuality
John de Ruiter Podcast 543
Rebuilding Your Relationship For a Higher Purpose
March 15, 2004 @ 2:00pm
Entering a sexual relationship too soon has created suffering for this couple. Is it possible to start over, and build the kind of commitment that will survive the inevitable difficulties?
Latest Transcript on Sexuality
The Power Of Words And Speaking
February 8, 2023
Q: Right after that last meeting I felt as if a little door opened in me. It had to do with what you said about experience being a messenger. Openness and softness took on new meaning. My body started opening and there was more movement, within. What disturbs me is that using words and talking about it seems to disconnect me from you.
John: Words belong to what connects us.
Q: As soon as you spoke those words I felt connected again. It’s as if I haven’t learned to connect from that depth when I speak.
John: Then in having realized, you’ll love learning, and with each word you speak you lose something old of your self. Then for you to speak is for you to change.
Q: I love what you're saying.
John: As you open to the much deeper levels within, those deeper levels of your body open and those levels of your sexuality open, and your words have beingness.
You commune even through words … and speaking changes you.
