Something this questioner sees in a TV nature program overturns all of his ideas of good and bad, right and wrong, taking him behind the facade created by his core beliefs. In this dialogue, John travels with him through the creation and power of these false structures, the shocking effects of unveiling their illusory reality, and shows him how to build what is real through an unconditional return to the heart.
This dialogue begins with the questioner asking “being a nobody” and transforms into a conversation about how to let go of spiritual ways to allow room for real transformation. Just as candida comes from having too much sugar, John guides the speaker to let go of his “spiritual candida” until he can handle more. Topics discussed:
• It’s good to rest in seeing, without needing understanding or interpretation.
• No need to think about it or talk about it, make nothing of it.
• Being relaxed and not applying things too quickly.
• Have no more spiritual sugar. You have spiritual candida.
• What others can handle, you can’t handle, so you need to eliminate all of it until the candida’s gone.
• Your relationship with what you know and what you see is feeding your self.
• For some time – don’t speak about what you know and what you see.
• Don’t speak of the deep, don’t be “”into”” what you know and what you see… and therefore into saying it.
• Your relationship with sugar/with your self – is very tricky.
• Don’t take the fruits – leave them behind you… it’s an illusion…
“There is no embodiment of a level deeper, without moving through its dark night. There is no price too high for a caterpillar to pay in becoming a butterfly.”
“As newness, you lead. As newness moving, entering, there’s no reference to what has been. This movement is love.”
The blocks are what you’ve put in place in your movie life to protect you from your real unseen life. The blocks are made of your role being made important in the movie. Your reason for being in the movie is not about the movie role. It’s about you being present as a being in that movie role. The benefit isn’t for the role, it isn’t for the movie; it’s for you as a being.
We have many energy centres in our bodies. These energy gates are doorways to our being and to deeper levels of existence. The energy that trickles through them is what gives meaning to our life. How do we open these gates more fully and step into a magical being-filled life? Listen to this podcast to find out!
What is the deepest, truest place for a man in lovemaking? What is the real value of that union between a man and a woman? A dive into deeper sexuality, this talk will take you all the way to where man and woman are the same, and then all the way back up into the surface, where lovely differences flower in a way that isn’t possible without it being from the innermost outwards. Love with forms, all of them. It’s magical and the result is magical. It’s a love absorption.
What is the deepest, truest place for a man in lovemaking? What is the real value of that union between a man and a woman? A master class in deeper sexuality, this talk will take you all the way to where man and woman are the same, and then all the way back up into the surface, where lovely differences flower in a way that isn’t possible without it being from the innermost outwards. Love with forms, all of them. It’s a little like two babies loving each other. It’s magical and the result is magical. It’s a love absorption.
In this Q&A dialogue the questioner asks about a magical experience that occurred while meditating, and John explains it’s not really about the meditation but that she shifted into the magicalness of innocence, of how she was when she was really little.
• It’s not about meditation or techniques – anything you use you make stronger, If you use a technique, you make it stronger. You can’t use anything of your self or any tool to return to innocence. The self is meant to express your innocence, what you really are.
• If you want to make it difficult, use techniques and employ a spiritual path.
• It is as direct, simple and really lovely as it was for you when you still moved in your innocence. All the codes are in you. You don’t need a tool to enable those codes. Your return to those codes activates them. It’s your return to what you know the truth of in your heart without any help from your self.
The real power of human sexuality is very different from how the world relates to it. When our sexuality is connected through the heart directly to our being, it can be the fire that burns up everything that isn’t real in our selves, transmuting our selves into a true expression of our being – what we really are.
Opening to magical dustings.In this connection the questioner describes an experience he has of another dimension opening within him.
“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”
– John de Ruiter
