“Instead of being focused on what you're doing in your life, be the intimacy within that's connecting everything that you're doing. Be the connective intimacy. That shifts you from your activities to the intimacy in all of your activity. That makes you intimacy of being instead of merely a self. Heart-centred instead of activity-centred.”
- Using your self for your sense of wellbeing produces heaviness, depletion and low self esteem
- In being in the world, don't reference what that feels like to your self: reference your heart
- Let the intimacy of your being together mean more to you than your life together
- Preparing for the birth of your child: quieted in the heart instead of listening to a flurry of emotions
- Living from what affects your heart instead of living from what affects your self
- Live your real life in the midst of whatever: your real centre is in the quietude within
