“Concerning your father, a little clue: enjoy him without the use of memory. That’s how you were with him, with ease, while you were in your mother’s womb. You were enjoying him because you knew him. Know him without the use of memory and you will enjoy him. The subtlety of it doesn’t diminish its meaning.”
- The loss in your self helps you
- The breaking of your heart puts the focus on your self
- The delicateness of pain puts the focus on what is deeper
- A space where you and your father are able to meet
- Being planted in what it knows but cannot see