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Staying True to the Sunshine of Awakening
March 7, 2021 @ 11:00am
Using the analogy of awakening as the experience of golden sunshine, John explains what's happening when clouds seem to cover it, and how to remain oriented to your love of the sun.
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What is the deepest, truest place for a man in lovemaking? What is the real value of that union between a man and a woman? A master class in deeper sexuality, this talk will take you all the way to where man and woman are the same, and then all the way back up into the surface, where lovely differences flower in a way that isn’t possible without it being from the innermost outwards. Love with forms, all of them. It’s a little like two babies loving each other. It’s magical and the result is magical. It’s a love absorption.
In this Q&A dialogue the questioner asks about a magical experience that occurred while meditating, and John explains it's not really about the meditation but that she shifted into the magicalness of innocence, of how she was when she was really little.
• It's not about meditation or techniques – anything you use you make stronger, If you use a technique, you make it stronger. You can't use anything of your self or any tool to return to innocence. The self is meant to express your innocence, what you really are.
• If you want to make it difficult, use techniques and employ a spiritual path.
• It is as direct, simple and really lovely as it was for you when you still moved in your innocence. All the codes are in you. You don’t need a tool to enable those codes. Your return to those codes activates them. It’s your return to what you know the truth of in your heart without any help from your self.
Opening to magical dustings.In this connection the questioner describes an experience he has of another dimension opening within him.
In this Q&A dialogue, John speaks about how to stay in the heart when others attack or offend you.
The dialogue covers several topics including:
• Reactivity and polarization. The reactivity betrays a false, illusory investment.
• Being honest to your self blinds you.
• Being beautifully vulnerable: No filters, no boundaries, no shields, no protection of any kind – you will feel everything. Everything that touches your self from anyone, from anything, is free to go right into you, right through you.
• Instead of reacting – open. When someone loves you – open. When someone is nasty to you – open. Then you are being what you really are.
In this Q&A dialogue John speaks about discovering your real power, and being free of “”the perpetrator”” and “”the victim””.
This video touches on several topics including:
• The false relationship to power
• The illusory life of victim or perpetrator.
• Not using power over anyone, not relating to being overpowered by anyone.
• Discovering your real power, deeper within.
• Your only real reason for being in a body.
• The real opportunity of this life: being what you really are at any cost. That makes you oneness before you die.
• No amount of awakening gives you the slightest advantage and no kind of past or DNA inheritance gives you the slightest disadvantage.
In this Q&A dialogue the questioner ask about her fear of death. John speaks on several topics including:
• Speak of what you like, instead of saying what you don't like.
• Thrive in what you like on every level, right down to the really little things.
John answers questions on various topics, in an open mic setting. How to have a deeper relationship with your children, how to open without reason, coming from the roots of your awareness in your meditation and in the rest of your day, the practise of NLP – is it helpful?, the need to be happy, being okay in the midst of anything, sexuality, deeper womanness and deeper manness, overcoming childhood trauma and what makes therapy work.
In this Q&A dialogue after watching the movie “The Tiger: An Old Hunter's Tale” the questioner asks about how to let go of the false story you’ve let define you and truly live life to the fullest.
In this Q&A dialogue the questioner ask about Enlightenment. John then defines enlightenment and speaks about the following:
• Purity of heart is of the greatest value, it can't be compared.
• Purity of heart is more than the Sum of All Awakenings.
• Falling and getting back up.
• Nothing prevents you from being what you really are. You can be it in the darkest night. In any kind of fire.
• What purifies the heart is being what you know.
In this Q&A dialogue, the questioner speaks about the emptiness in his heart. He brings it up because he is experiencing a hole, an emptiness, the source of all his addictions, wanting to fill it, and being a victim of it. Watch the video to find out what John says about that emptiness, regardless and despite the distractions one may experience.
In this talk John speaks on topics relating to the health benefits of our own being, including: Being what you really are at any cost – being like the being, is better for the body than really good food. You thrive on you, not on food.
In this video about the meaning of life, John talks about facing who you really are at the threshold of death. You being what you really are – your destiny is one with everything after this life.
The latest video from our Meaning of Life Series https://goo.gl/l739Rf, John speaks on topics relating to the purpose of our lives and our real destiny, including:
• What is deeper than human. What we are isn't first human.
• Turning into what you see in the depth of a newborn.
• Nothing opens humanness like being what precedes it.
• Facing what you really are before you physically die.
• Everything that the thread of the weakest weakness holds together in your self and your life stays after you die.
• Most would rather die than be wrong, would rather die than meet the end of personal and held together meaning. Not many die being meaning.
• Dependency on your human body experience of love. A love that goes beyond the physical.
• The thread which precedes what's human is unbreakable.
• You being what you really are – your destiny is one with everything after this life.
• Anything that we are being and doing that isn't quietly seated in humanness is an illusion… it isn't human… it's inhumane. If all of this isn't perfectly clear, it will be for sure after you die.
