Q: John, there’s a supposition that therapy is necessary in order to be free from the stories we use to justify our perceptions and our self-identity. It seems as if you’re saying that merely living by the truth, you see you’ve been dishonest, and…
Topic: Pain & Suffering
Q: I lost my job. I can see there’s opportunity in it and at the moment I’m struggling to see what to do next – whether to find another job in the same line or whether to make a change. Losing my job brings up…
Q: My father died last year and since then my mother has become very unhappy and dependent on me. I’m with her a lot. I often feel her unhappiness and it makes me physically ill. John: She doesn’t need you. She needs to be…
Q: I don’t really understand how to take care of people who are suffering or in difficulty. John: There needs to be a fundamental acceptance that we’re not going to get it all right, either toward our selves or toward others. Unless you start with that,…
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October 17, 2021
“The clarity that you have from your deeper breathing in is what moves matter in your life. It moves all of the lesser things that matter. Carry none of it; be moving all of it.” Dialogue One Having no ground in your self;…
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October 6, 2021
“Have me in your heart instead of where you want to have me in your life.” Enjoy our bond without reference to your self Love without thought and without comparison Sweet love, happy love, quiet love Swim in the contact you have with me…
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October 3, 2021
“You, despite all experience, unconditionally warmly okay as is. That’s the real. Separate from that and you create pain and suffering.” Dialogue One Mental and emotional pain is evidence of a story you’re holding onto Dialogue Two Being a somebody, positively or negatively, is…
Why is it that love in relationship often comes with mental, emotional and physical pain? John describes the belief systems and sense of individuality this all comes from, and how to make a full return to the love that we were born to be.
Finding home, within, is a painful struggle for this person. Even being in the world is difficult. John shows her an easy way to be genuinely at home, within, and live from a real, eternal quality of life.
Q: I told you long ago about my sleeplessness. I’m only able to sleep with strong medicines and even then it’s difficult. I feel weak and there are long periods when I feel completely empty: no thoughts and emotions, only emptiness and fear. John:…
Q: I work with people who suffer from chronic pain and I’m wondering what would assist them in dealing with it. John: To have no personal issue with chronic pain. For the most part, people who have chronic pain are attached to it. Only profound…
Why can’t I enter life more fully?’ The sense of isolation that comes from feeling like an observer in his life brings this man to ask for John’s guidance in letting go of whatever is holding him back.
