Q: I can feel so much loneliness at times, but as much as I want to connect with people I cannot allow them in. I’m afraid they will abandon me. John: When you’re lonely, you’re not in need of company. When you’re lonely, you…
Topic: Pain & Suffering
Q: I’ve been listening to you for a while now, but still have problems with fears coming up and old patterns from a bad kundalini experience. I’d like help with that, if possible. John: Just like being gentled and quieted within, regardless of all…
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October 25, 2021
“If you are being intimacy, intimacy without any kind of packaging, nothing added to it, then you are intimately connected to the unseen. You’re in an intimate flow relationship with the unseen.” Dialogue One What is rightfully yours by birth; only intimacy can…
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October 18, 2021
“When the sun is upon you, you love, but when the midnight sky is upon you, you don’t love. When the midnight sky is upon you, you are the quietude of love.” Dialogue One A heart-walk in the midst of anything; quietly surrender…
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October 18, 2021
“You can’t have what you want. Your deepest, quietest heart gets to have you, and from there, evermore, what’s deeper gets to have you. That’s your life.” Dialogue One Disturbance is an unburdening Dialogue Two The deepest you relates as sameness; a…
Q: John, there’s a supposition that therapy is necessary in order to be free from the stories we use to justify our perceptions and our self-identity. It seems as if you’re saying that merely living by the truth, you see you’ve been dishonest, and…
Q: I lost my job. I can see there’s opportunity in it and at the moment I’m struggling to see what to do next – whether to find another job in the same line or whether to make a change. Losing my job brings up…
Q: My father died last year and since then my mother has become very unhappy and dependent on me. I’m with her a lot. I often feel her unhappiness and it makes me physically ill. John: She doesn’t need you. She needs to be…
Q: I don’t really understand how to take care of people who are suffering or in difficulty. John: There needs to be a fundamental acceptance that we’re not going to get it all right, either toward our selves or toward others. Unless you start with that,…
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October 6, 2021
“Have me in your heart instead of where you want to have me in your life.” Enjoy our bond without reference to your self Love without thought and without comparison Sweet love, happy love, quiet love Swim in the contact you have with me…
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October 3, 2021
“You, despite all experience, unconditionally warmly okay as is. That’s the real. Separate from that and you create pain and suffering.” Dialogue One Mental and emotional pain is evidence of a story you’re holding onto Dialogue Two Being a somebody, positively or negatively, is…
Why is it that love in relationship often comes with mental, emotional and physical pain? John describes the belief systems and sense of individuality this all comes from, and how to make a full return to the love that we were born to be.
