This vivid conversation dives into the topic of a real relationship to power. John describes how most of us live as both victims and perpetrators. We create a life of stories and illusion, losing the opportunity to awaken and, more importantly, to build on that awakening before we die. He reveals the fundamental simplicity and rare value of living a real life.
Listen to this talk to find out what grace and devotion really are; where they come from, what they’re for, and how to live for what you belong to.
Despite her awakenings, this questioner feels lonely and tired on her spiritual path and asks for help to find greater connection with the people around her. John explains how to do that, by completely being what you know in your heart.
Many of us love responding to and being in our hearts; and yet we find it challenging to sustain a love filled heart in in your daily life, in the midst of circumstances, in the midst of feelings and emotions in our selves. In this dialogue, John speaks of and explains how to sweep the self out of the heart, develop a deeper and a higher self, and live in love and empathy instead of fear.
How to be free of past hurts and conditioning? Is there a method that can help, a spiritual practice? Can meditation help? John explains why methods and spiritual practices ultimately don’t work. Spiritual practices can help bring you to the door of your being, but they can’t take you through the door. It is only a shift of orientation that can take you through the door, into pure you and into freedom from past hurts and from the conditioning in your self.
What is happening in male orgasm and ejaculation?” A sincere, frank and at times humorous conversation in which John and the questioner explore the subtleties of male orgasm, how to integrate the embarrassing ‘wild man’ within and make real love – with or without having sex.
The real power of human sexuality is very different from how the world relates to it. When our sexuality is connected through the heart directly to our being, it can be the fire that burns up everything that isn’t real in our selves, transmuting our selves into a true expression of our being – what we really are.
In this Q&A dialogue John speaks about discovering your real power, and being free of “”the perpetrator”” and “”the victim””.
This video touches on several topics including:
• The false relationship to power
• The illusory life of victim or perpetrator.
• Not using power over anyone, not relating to being overpowered by anyone.
• Discovering your real power, deeper within.
• Your only real reason for being in a body.
• The real opportunity of this life: being what you really are at any cost. That makes you oneness before you die.
• No amount of awakening gives you the slightest advantage and no kind of past or DNA inheritance gives you the slightest disadvantage.
“As you, within the movie of your life, relate to the resonance within each of your chakras, these energy gates open and you begin to trickle into your being, giving you a little bit of real, unseen life in your life.”
“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”
– John de Ruiter
