Questions About Death
“You can come into this world and then leave, and leave with a deficit. Or you can leave with a great gain. A density of gain or a density of loss. And it’s all and only in relationship to what you did or didn’t do with what you knew.”
Latest YouTube Video on Death
Beyond the Matrix of Illusion
May 22, 2021 @ 7:30pm
What makes the world exist, and how can a person live and work in this life without participating in a matrix of illusion? In this short, direct conversation John describes how it's possible to live in the world from our deepest heart and be only real, letting everything pass away that will pass when we die.
Latest Podcast on Death
John de Ruiter Podcast 551
Really Living Before You Die: The Power of Inexperienced Vulnerability
December 3, 2011 @ 2:00pm
A cancer diagnosis and the realization that she might soon die has awakened a new sense of purpose in this person. What is the secret to going home, within, before her physical death?
Latest Transcript on Death
Love: Your Real Beingness
January 11, 2023
Q: What happens after death to the being?
John: After you’ve died, you will purely be what you really are.
Q: Why is it important to pursue it in this lifetime?
John: The whole point of being born and being here is for you to be what you are after you’ve died, while you live.
Q: But what is really there? After you die you become what you really are, you realize what you really are, but what is it?
John: Levels and levels and levels of you being love. After you’ve died, when you meet someone, as soon as you meet, you know everything. As soon as you meet, you directly know everything about each other. Everything shows: your whole past shows, what you were in this life all shows. There isn’t anything that’s concealed and as you meet, you fully, as love, commune.
Q: Why is it the only thing which is true?
John: Love is your real beingness. Love is movement of you. It’s how you really move. It’s very different from how you move in your self. In your self you move as thought and feeling, will and emotion, but what you really are moves as love.
What you really are moves as the intimacy of love.
