Why should we treat others with fairness and kindness when they don’t treat us that way? John reveals how the surrendering of our sense of entitlement to love is a necessary desert that must be crossed before the embodiment of what we really are can be lived.
An underlying need for approval undermines this young man’s confidence, particularly when it comes to women he is attracted to. John reveals the source of this experience and shows him the way to an authentic, relaxed way of being in any circumstance.
As part of a special New Year’s Eve live stream, John responds to questions uppermost in our minds as we navigate the challenges and decisions facing us in our COVID-changed world.
In this extraordinary conversation, John describes the fundamental shift that is occurring in our lives right now, changing both our selves and our world.
“As the river takes you and is able to have your self and your life, the more that it takes you out into your life, the more that it also takes you back. As it gets to have you, you are gifted with everything that it is. As it gets to have you, you get to have it.”
“What can I do if people seem to want more compassion from me than I feel?” This talk explores the difference between performing as a loving or helpful person, and the movement of deeper levels of love.
Many are able to perceive a higher frequency of consciousness than the vibration of this world, but is it possible for us to turn into that? It’s possible, and will happen quickly at our physical death. John describes how, in just 40 days, it’s possible to move into this higher frequency while we live.
This woman doesn’t understand the experiences she’s having of subtle energetic shapes and vibrations in her body. John explains why understanding doesn’t help, and shows her what really matters.
This woman asks John for the meaning of an unusual vision and the words that came with it. What follows is an extraordinary journey into the roots of our human beingness, the development and role of our sexuality, and the complete change of consciousness needed for our return.
“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”
– John de Ruiter
