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Topic: Feelings & Emotions

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Trusting the More of You

December 9, 2013

“When you’re together, begin with all that is there after the two of you have died and in that, together, live. That’s a real relationship.” Marriage, dearness, commitment and real relationship An emotional charge can blind you Dearness in relationship is everything Relationship as…

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Heart Soup Served Warm

November 16, 2013

“When your heart is open and soft, it isn’t actually vulnerable: it can withstand anything.” Addicted to experiencing your self Being true to your self, true to your heart, true to your being Moving as a goodness self, moving as a higher self Fulfilling…

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The Reconfiguration of Trauma

November 15, 2013

“Embodying your being is you earning your own being, earning your being in your body.” When something triggers your past The gift of negative emotion Integrating your will and the release of illness Profoundly honest in the midst of the reaction Confusion, clarity and…

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Openness and Softness Indomitable

November 14, 2013

“When you are being what you really are you absolutely flourish in the midst of absolutely everything.“ First connection is silent Free to open and soften in your heart Pain helps you know more deeply Navigating by opening Your experience is a fruit of…

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Love Survives Everything

November 4, 2013

“The resistance in your self doesn’t tell you the deeper truth of anything. There is no clear seeing in resistance.” Judgments, conclusions and intense emotions The more you know, the more you love Deconstructing the mechanisms in your self Resistance, contraction and trauma A…

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Functioning as Wholeness

November 1, 2013

“For seamlessness to feel is for seamlessness to love. The seamlessness of your own being then has access into your heart and has access into your self.” How to return to and remain in your heart You don’t need the defenses in your self…

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The Togetherness of You

October 25, 2013

“There isn’t anything else that is absolutely safe, but awareness belonging to knowing.” Overcoming the fear of death An orientation to knowing, without preference A patterned response: your cue to surrender to what’s deeper Dropping into the deepest without any fear Directly knowing him…

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Love’s Use of Thinking

September 17, 2013

“That little part in your self that you find not interested is the part of you in your self that’s not getting something out of this. It’s a part that doesn’t see that there is anything to have. Give that part of you over…

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Making Choices by the Power of Knowing

September 16, 2013

“If you make your decisions from your death bed, your life will be different from what you’re used to. You will make clear and wise decisions from within all of the greater perspective that you are capable of.” Is there any value to the…

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Integrating Your Emotions

September 12, 2013

Q: I’m having a really hard time here. I’m having so many ups and downs and there is a war between the mind and the knowing. John: The battle of the ages. Q: One day I’m so clearly in the knowing and the next…

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“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”

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