Q: I experienced that I wasn’t in this room any more. I just experienced that it went very deep and I wasn’t in this room anymore. Can you explain to me what that is? John: You not being in your self. Q: After my other…
Topic: Parenting
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January 25, 2015
“When you are gentled and quieted in your heart, you are incapable of relating to disappointment, incapable of feeling sorry for your self.” The complete answer to sadness and depression Doing something for a result is a disconnect Using another for an experience in…
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January 22, 2015
“Your self is yours to integrate. To integrate your self you need to be, in the midst of your experience, a little bit like your own being.” Feeling bad about feeling angry How to come out of a closed-loop perspective Enjoying tiny subtleties of…
Q: My question is about having children. I feel when I look around the world that the real conflicts come from relationships that have children, and dealing with the difficulties that come with them. John: There isn’t actually any conflict in that. Q: If you…
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September 22, 2014
“There is no issue of any kind that is able to make it true for you to close. Let your being represent you, concerning every issue.” Knowing first, understanding later No good reason to be in a spin The permanent bond and real connection…
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September 20, 2014
“It doesn’t matter what you think and it doesn’t matter what you say; what you are being is what you are teaching your children.” Your real way forward when you’re in the dark The reason for your exhaustion Shifting to a real and true…
Q1: We have a teenager who spends far too much time than is helpful for him on computer games, and we’d love him to consider the negative impact it’s having on him and the family. I’ve thought a lot about what you said about…
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June 7, 2014
“What purifies your self is you being in your heart in the midst of your self, always bringing your self along in the same way that you are in your heart.” When you fear losing a baby How to be really together with your…
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May 26, 2014
“When a drop of water touches a drop of water there is no holding back – it joins. Water responds to water. Your being responds to what is the same, outside of you, as your own being.” Living apart from your children Everything you…
Q: I really loved what you said about love, before being a person or being a mother. John: You’re better off being in and coming from deeper womanness, just clearly, than being a mother or a wife. Your deeper womanness offers a lot more…
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March 28, 2014
“Pain is critical to the integration of your self. Without pain you won’t see in your self.” Releasing trauma from the body How love makes room for pain What matters more than having a baby Why you don’t need what you want Deeper womanness…
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March 27, 2014
“No one owes you anything. Then when someone does love you, that love goes all the way in. Their love for you is not personally used by you, it is personally all let in by you, making you vulnerable to its loss.” How to…
