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Alan Steinfeld interviews John de Ruiter in New York on his book “The Intelligence of Love”

November 27, 2015

“The Intelligence of Love”, the new book by John de Ruiter was launched at ABC Carpet & Home in November 2015. Alan Steinfeld from newrealities.com interviews John de Ruiter during his visit in New York.This Interview covers topics from the book and from John’s teachings such as sexuality, parenting, and human evolution.

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Whether to Have Another Child

September 27, 2015

“Working out a philosophical base for having another child or not helps you to think clearly and it also helps to move the influence of your conditioning aside.” How to decide whether to expand your family More than the issue of having more children…

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Your Way Back to Love

September 25, 2015

“The way that this world conditions us is through control systems and information systems. In moving as a being, this world doesn’t offer you perspective, and systems mean nothing without love. What there really is, is love. All of your systems really mean nothing…

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You Are what You Relate To

September 24, 2015

“When you, awareness, have no more relationship to separation, you are one.” Shifting awareness to a deeper level of meaning What matters in your relationship with your self? The discomfort of being separate Absorbed by truth, you are home Turning into a deeper level…

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Move with Clarity, but Hold it Lightly

April 6, 2015

Q: I hope to get more ability and clarity. I saw that I took my self to heart for a long time and I feel embarrassing and awkward. John: Instead of feeling embarrassed and awkward in your self, with a little shift you can…

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Solitude and Clarity

March 12, 2015

Q: I experienced that I wasn’t in this room any more. I just experienced that it went very deep and I wasn’t in this room anymore. Can you explain to me what that is? John: You not being in your self. Q: After my other…

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A Heartful Perspective

January 25, 2015

“When you are gentled and quieted in your heart, you are incapable of relating to disappointment, incapable of feeling sorry for your self.” The complete answer to sadness and depression Doing something for a result is a disconnect Using another for an experience in…

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Openness and Softness Needs No Defending

January 22, 2015

“Your self is yours to integrate. To integrate your self you need to be, in the midst of your experience, a little bit like your own being.” Feeling bad about feeling angry How to come out of a closed-loop perspective Enjoying tiny subtleties of…

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Don’t Miss Your Life

December 28, 2014

Q: My question is about having children. I feel when I look around the world that the real conflicts come from relationships that have children, and dealing with the difficulties that come with them. John: There isn’t actually any conflict in that. Q: If you…

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Let Your Being be Your Advocate

September 22, 2014

“There is no issue of any kind that is able to make it true for you to close. Let your being represent you, concerning every issue.” Knowing first, understanding later No good reason to be in a spin The permanent bond and real connection…

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Free to Change

September 20, 2014

“It doesn’t matter what you think and it doesn’t matter what you say; what you are being is what you are teaching your children.” Your real way forward when you’re in the dark The reason for your exhaustion Shifting to a real and true…

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Deepening A Child’s Fascination

August 15, 2014

Q1: We have a teenager who spends far too much time than is helpful for him on computer games, and we’d love him to consider the negative impact it’s having on him and the family. I’ve thought a lot about what you said about…

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