A questioner asks how to deal with difficult situations in life, such the death of a parent, that can trigger an experience of pain and difficulty. John speaks of death as something that can bring true perspective into our life; of love moving in pain and filling it, turning it into compassion. This is a talk on love, the passing away of veils in death and our real power being openness, allowing for love to fill all of our forms.
In this video about the meaning of life, John talks about facing who you really are at the threshold of death. You being what you really are – your destiny is one with everything after this life.
The latest video from our Meaning of Life Series https://goo.gl/l739Rf, John speaks on topics relating to the purpose of our lives and our real destiny, including:
• What is deeper than human. What we are isn’t first human.
• Turning into what you see in the depth of a newborn.
• Nothing opens humanness like being what precedes it.
• Facing what you really are before you physically die.
• Everything that the thread of the weakest weakness holds together in your self and your life stays after you die.
• Most would rather die than be wrong, would rather die than meet the end of personal and held together meaning. Not many die being meaning.
• Dependency on your human body experience of love. A love that goes beyond the physical.
• The thread which precedes what’s human is unbreakable.
• You being what you really are – your destiny is one with everything after this life.
• Anything that we are being and doing that isn’t quietly seated in humanness is an illusion… it isn’t human… it’s inhumane. If all of this isn’t perfectly clear, it will be for sure after you die.
“Love doesn’t move without it being empowered. All of the power that you experience in resistance is the power of love separate from love, moved as hardness. When you open in it, the hardness cracks open and all of the power that was held in it is released to where it belongs. It’s given through your heart to your being. Love is empowered and love moves.”
John describes the gift in the death of a loved one, how to access the depth of the bond, and how to enter a relationship to our own death that brings life-changing perspective.
“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”
– John de Ruiter
