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Are You Romanticizing Spirituality?

July 21, 2021 @ 12:00am

“The truth within is first all romanticized, until you’re in the desert, where all self-consolation, self-promise, self-hope has expired, and there you are in the quietude of your heart in a depth of listening within. You need no results. You need no fruit. You need no light at the end of the tunnel. You need no promise of anything. All you are is true. There’s nothing else to you, and the beingness of that is love. Love, all on its own, naturally undaunted by absolutely anything. That’s what you really are.”

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Without a Doubt: Giving Your Heart to the Truth You Know

October 9, 2011 @ 2:00pm

Is the aliveness of the truth you know free to move in your life, or does doubt have control? John explains the role of belief in having no ‘back seat’ in your heart.

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Young People Speak With John: On Fear And Anger

April 14, 2023

Two young people put their questions to John at an open mic: Q1: What is fear? John: When you focus on something that’s not nurturing and real inside, then you separate from what’s nurturing and real. As soon as you’re separate from what’s nurturing and real, you’ll fear because the nurture and the real isn’t there, so what you’re...

Two young people put their questions to John at an open mic:

Q1: What is fear?

John: When you focus on something that’s not nurturing and real inside, then you separate from what’s nurturing and real. As soon as you’re separate from what’s nurturing and real, you’ll fear because the nurture and the real isn’t there, so what you’re left with is lack that’s represented in your emotions.

When you have fear that means that you’ve created some distance from what’s nurtureful inside, such as a restedness, a really quiet okayness, a tenderness. Go away from tenderness inside and you’ll fear. Inside of the tenderness there is no fear. 

Q2: How do I handle my anger?

John: In one way the feeling of anger is really good because it quickly tells you that you’re believing something that’s not true. So as soon as you feel angry, let go of everything that you’re thinking until your heart becomes open and settled again. As soon as your heart is opened and settled again, you’re really there. While you’re angry your heart is closed and hard, and you’re no longer really there in your heart. 

When you’re angry, you’re caught in something that isn’t real. As soon as you’re angry, let go of what you’re thinking and what you’re feeling. As soon as you do, your heart opens again. When your heart is open, instead of being upset, you’ll love.

When you’re angry, what that really means is that you’ve tricked your self.  You’ve tricked your self into believing something that isn’t true and that isn’t real. 

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Reshaping Possibility: Your Right Brain Intelligence

June 8, 2025

“To survive, you need your left brain. To be the real, you need your right brain.”

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Midnight Sky August Long Weekend, August 2, 2025, Evening

August 2, 2025

“When you are open to not know you, realms open to you. You’ll be moving in them without knowing.”   Dialogue 1 The complexities of reaching in relationship Uncontrolled openness; no need to get it right Unprotected giving that doesn’t need to be seen   Dialogue 2 Not knowing is a much deeper level of knowledge The beautiful, unseen results of being free of you Beyond the edge of a limited consciousness...

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