A demanding job that includes problem-solving and decision-making … and a new touch of love for something deeper. How is this going to change my life? John’s response makes clear that this turning point is the beginning of a real, new life.
In what John describes as the legitimate and wonderful pull towards sexual union, there’s no room for want or need, hope or disappointment. This dialogue takes a deep dive into the topic of sexuality and power, and how it can all come to rest in a fully opened heart.
After great experiences of inner surrender, awakening and peace, why is it that distracting thoughts and emotions return? John reveals the way from a divided heart to one rooted in knowing and how that gives rise to nurturing thought and feeling.
“In realizing who I am, I no longer moved as what I am. That one realized shift changed everything. A change of context realized, known, permanently changes the whole.”
“Deeper sexuality cleans by virtue of what it is: it’s clean. It’s clean of all attraction and aversion.”
“Having launched into being consummately gentled and quieted in your heart, there’s this other pulse that you can now hear. The pulse of a deeper level of reality.”
“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”
– John de Ruiter
