Entering a sexual relationship too soon has created suffering for this couple. Is it possible to start over, and build the kind of commitment that will survive the inevitable difficulties?
Location: New Zealand
An unusual question and an even more unusual answer, revealing the wondrous complexity of a simple fact to the scientist of love.
What’s really going on when we’re angry? Instead of relating to external ‘causes’ and working on anger as a problem, John takes us into a shift of perspective. He opens a window through which we can see what in us is of much greater value.
Q: Hello, John. My partner and I have been living together for the past six months. Many times I’ve wondered whether that was kind or skillful because of the pain and suffering that arise in the relationship. If I had had my time over,…
JdR Audio 010
• Judicious love, profound togetherness
• Most gentled and tender brokenness
• Being the loveliness instead of just having it
• True beingness within the experience of persons
• Benevolent self-control instead of you controlling benevolence
• Giving away your island
