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There isn’t a process to being with what you love. It doesn’t require effort. You will naturally be with what you value more. Honesty puts awareness into what it deeply knows it values the most.” To define “what you know the truth of,” John explains how truth is as natural and immediate as the connection between two in love.

Q1: Is there anything in particular about being young that people here need to take care of? Or is there anything you would say about being young? John: When you’re young, the polarity in your self isn’t seasoned. Q1: Do you mean you’re not further down…

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Q: I’ve been so touched when you’ve spoken about eternal bonds. Could you could say more about what they are? How can we know them and nurture them? John: By letting the resonance of a bond be what you’re relating to in meeting anyone,…
Q1: When I’m feeling lonely, I often find diversions – watching movies or doing housework – to keep my self occupied. Can you say something about this? John: If you’re lonely, it’s because you are coldly alone. Q1: Coldly alone? John: Yes, instead of…
Q: I have a question about what it is to be in your heart. I feel it’s difficult to connect to it, and I’d like to know how to do it. John: When you open and soften, that naturally brings you right into your…
Q: A few days ago, I became aware how much energy, how much awareness is going towards sexuality. It touched me deep to see that. Here I come on this border of pulling and wanting. Sometimes I can see very clear, but I also…
Q: There is a very tiny movement of hesitation or doubt which immediately stops the movement of going deeper. John: Your use of it prevents you. If doubt didn’t serve you at all, you wouldn’t have it. Doubt doesn’t honestly serve you. Q: There’s…
Q: Hello, John. I have a question. Is there such a thing as a personal soul or is it just one soul? John: How do you mean? Q: There is a personal ego on this earth and so a lot of religions said that…
Marriage can be challenging, not unlike an outpost in the cholera infested jungles of Mei-tan-fu, China. Kitty and Walter Fane face both, but while their abode tests the limits of their slumping relationship, it also inspires a love in each that forgives, reaches for,…
Article & Interview with John de Ruiter By Neils Brummelman from “Paravisie Magazine.” This is an English translation of an article that originally appeared in the October 2010 Issue of Paravisie Magazine. It was based on an interview that took place between Neils and…

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