Q: My relationship with a man is very difficult. I wonder if he’s the wrong man for me, or the difficulty is because of something in me? Can you help? John: Any time that you have difficulty, the difficulty is first your self. When…
Topic: Relationship
Q: I want to talk about forgiveness. We’re often told to forgive this and forgive that, but if we’re really coming from our heart there is no need for forgiveness. John: Yes. When you hold a grudge, or when you’re closing and hardening towards…
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June 30, 2019
“Let you being intimacy in the little things reformat your entire social life regardless of what others think of that. You unconditionally let that rule. Then in your social life you’re no longer performance oriented: you’re intimacy oriented.” Intimacy with the littlest things: your…
The woman in this dialogue wonders if the break-up of her relationship means she should close and withdraw. John shows her the way into the deeper connectedness of love and the timeless nature of bonds.
Q: I have a burning question about a relationship with a man I’ve been with for some time. I dread being with him, basically. I shut down, and I don’t know if that signifies an ending. When I’m away from him I have space…
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June 1, 2019
“The value of your relationship is all in the bond. It’s the bond that makes the relationship”. Don’t believe the loud voices, believe only the still and the quiet What to do when your beloved wants to leave The value of your relationship is…
We often feel our heart opening when we say yes to someone. But is it possible to say no and still be open? John describes how to make every interaction like putting gold into someone’s pocket, whether your response to them is yes or no.
Q: My question is about family. How can we be with family in our hearts when we feel very different from them? John: When you’re in your heart, you’ll see in the others what isn’t different. Your whole sense of meaning in being together…
A newly married woman is exploring how to give more outer form to her marriage, and discovering what it means to grow in realness, togetherness and deeper sexuality with her husband.
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April 4, 2019
“You being all of what your light comes from is going to create a lot of light. Continue being what all of your light comes from. The more you are in it, the stronger your light.” Being what all of your light comes from…
Q: I don’t see where personal love – the love from one person to another – fits with the love which just is. Are they related, or is personal love between two people more based on wants, needs and desires? It seems to me…
Q: In my last marriage, when I took the decision to divorce my husband I felt it was necessary to do it, but after two years there’s still so much grief and missing of him. It was not a healthy relationship. It was terrible,…
