Topic: Relationship

Q: You recently said something so beautiful about marriage that I wrote it down: “A communion of real knowledge found with each other, made with each other.” I’d love you to talk about it some more. John: That’s having every level, within, with which…

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Building a Real Relationship: Being With Instead of Being Together

December 13, 2021

“Abandon together for with. With, where there is a touch of meaning, naturally turns into together. Together without with makes human love bitter. In a real relationship, there isn’t togetherness: there are two withs.” In relationship, with is first; with doesn’t mean together: it’s…

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What Is Real Loyalty?

November 17, 2021

Q: I have a question about loyalty. Somehow, I always manage to get myself in a position where I have to choose between mom and dad, and then a struggle occurs. Can you help me to recognize the true nature of loyalty? John: As…

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Quietly Surrendered to Tenderness in the Midst of Your Broken Self

October 18, 2021

“When the sun is upon you, you love, but when the midnight sky is upon you, you don’t love. When the midnight sky is upon you, you are the quietude of love.” Dialogue One A heart-walk in the midst of anything; quietly surrender…

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Young Men And Women Speak With John

October 18, 2021

Q1: Is there anything in particular about being young that people here need to take care of? Or is there anything you would say about being young? John: When you’re young, the polarity in your self isn’t seasoned. Q1: Do you mean you’re not further down…

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Free from Personal Judgement: Forgiving Instead of Fixing

October 9, 2021

“Fix each other and you will fight. Forgive and you love.” Instead of speaking your mind, forgive Live forgiving and you live in a hug Struggling to understand secures rigidity An unheld-together marriage; forgive instead of fix Intimacy makes family, not your efforts Everything…

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Building A Relationship For A Higher Purpose

September 8, 2021

Q: Hello, John. My partner and I have been living together for the past six months. Many times I’ve wondered whether that was kind or skillful because of the pain and suffering that arise in the relationship. If I had had my time over,…

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If You Had Someone Else’s Self For A Day …

July 21, 2021

Several people speak with John in the Jewel Cafe: Q1: Things are better with my daughter. John: It’s better between you and your self. Q1: What do you mean by “better between me and my self”? John: It’s not really between you and your…

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Dealing With Stress In Relationship: A Softer Heart, Not A Bigger Hammer

July 14, 2021

Q: We have a lot of stress at home because my husband doesn’t have full time work. We’ve talked about how he gets himself into these situations, but he doesn’t seem to want to hear anything from me. It’s his learning, but it’s also very…

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JdR Podcast 427

Multi-Dimensional Communion: The Awakening of Your Senses

June 18, 2021

Though the man in this dialogue has awakened to deeper levels of reality, he wonders how he can give form to what’s immaterial. John describes how this deeper reality is made physical, awakening the brain and body to a multi-dimensional communion.

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The End Of A Relationship: At Rest In Your Heart

June 9, 2021

Q: My question is about how to be in the ending of a relationship. My partner has decided it’s not right for him to be with me and I’m ready to let go, to see the good in what is there between us and…

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Building A Bomb-Proof Relationship

April 28, 2021

Excerpts from two cafe conversations on building a real relationship: Q: I am wondering whether a relationship I am in is real, and whether we’re a match. Can you help me figure this out? John: To simplify it, stay away from being sexually physical….

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