“When you’re not needing the familiar in the relating between the two of you, then the familiar ground of what has been the basis of your relationship is gone, and you’re left with a tiny little bit of new known ground that is beautifully unusual.”
“Make your marriage not short of what meaning is, while you are in your conditioned sensitivities, and you’ve got it: marriage breathing meaning instead of marriage in some way breeding conditioning. Seriously, don’t breed, make love.”
“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”
– John de Ruiter
