“Love doesn’t move without it being empowered. All of the power that you experience in resistance is the power of love separate from love, moved as hardness. When you open in it, the hardness cracks open and all of the power that was held in it is released to where it belongs. It’s given through your heart to your being. Love is empowered and love moves.”
A delicate conversation that explores the difficulties and power struggles that can come up in sexual intimacy.
John explains the nitty-gritty of loving without expectation, and what it is that nurtures real togetherness in a relationship.
In this dialogue with John a question is asked about how to understand a woman’s mystery.
An ever-so-sweet conversation in which a man shares the unease he feels around women.
“Instead of watching the truth that you know in your heart, be taken by the cosmic truth that’s just beneath that. It doesn’t offer an understanding. It does offer a sense of context within which your opened humanness sits.”
“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”
– John de Ruiter
