Q: I’ve been so touched when you’ve spoken about eternal bonds. Could you could say more about what they are? How can we know them and nurture them? John: By letting the resonance of a bond be what you’re relating to in meeting anyone,…
Topic: Relationship
Deeply loving someone and being in love… you start a relationship and then you wonder why, after familiarity has set in, the in-loveness is gone and there’s difficulty and pain. If you start from wanting and needing a relationship, you’re already relating in a way that isn’t like your being. So how to have a meaningful, pain-free relationship? Listen to this talk to find out!
JdR Audio 342
“Purity of heart is all in, and it doesn’t slow down because of a failure. Purity of heart is incapable of being discouraged. It’s incapable of being disappointed. Purity of heart without any use of strength is unstoppable.”
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June 2, 2018
“The magical sexual fields, the many of them, are closer to a woman’s listening than to a man’s. The same is all there also in a man, but to be able to listen into it requires a greater depth of stillness.” Letting deep knowledge…
VOD
June 2, 2018
“Your real relationship is entirely within the span of the light of your two candles. Love that, and you are dearness together. As this light is free to have your humanness, your light-filled humanness is free to have your self. Making you, in your…
What is the connection between opening the heart and love-making? When you open and soften in your heart, you discover the deeper levels. The woman pours her mystery and the man reads her and receives. Together, you get to know what you really are. Together, you are making what love is.
VOD
May 24, 2018
“In all of this, you reading her mystery is your mystery revealing hers. That puts the two of you not just into a real relationship but into a high level relationship. A rare possibility, emerging right there.” Falling asleep and deep time Letting your…
This is a question about sex and intimacy. The questioner feels she resists intimacy and doesn’t understand why, when love-making is full of sweetness, she still seems to avoid it. John shows her how to look for what she trusts. Where there is trust, love moves.
We are all connected to others, and form bonds with them in our lives. What are these bonds for? Why are some bonds deeper than others, or carry more meaning for us? What is it that moves in a bond and what is the chemistry? All of this and more is discussed in this dialogue.
A woman is feeling a lack of love towards her husband, often being annoyed by his behaviour and feeling superior to him. John shows her how to find the touch of dearness, the real connectivity, where surface annoyances becomes terms of endearment.
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January 30, 2018
“For one whole day, you don’t engage personal concern, and in its place you engage the tiniest smile within, the tiniest sweetest smile. The littler the better. And that’s all you are for a whole day. It doesn’t matter what you sound like, what…
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January 26, 2018
“The only meaningful times in your relationship is when both of you are touching into your relationship garden. Live where your relationship garden thrives the most.” Does your self need to be loved? Use your mind for practical things Reconfiguring your life for what…
