How can you be around people you care for, but don’t agree with? Dissociation only manifests more separation, and John shares how to stay connected.
Topic: Relationship
Imagine looking at the the pain of a lost relationship from the kindness of a hundred-year perspective. New possibilities will open, and John explains.
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November 24, 2024
“When all there is is the bell in you that’s been struck, as you near her, there’s nothing else there but the same.” Clueless, yet something there knows The container filled and changed by the mystery The bell is struck for the first time…
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“Great output without the usual input, and it’s only a matter of time and the deep will roar.”
This conversation opens up the difficulty of being with an angry father who still triggers your painful past. Is it okay not to see him, or is there another way forward?
Relationship can be the grand revealer of all the ways we create separation and struggle. John points out some of the traps, and reveals where real togetherness lies.
John explains the misunderstanding that’s at work when we’re triggered by someone’s difficult behaviour, and how quickly that experience can change.
Entering a sexual relationship too soon has created suffering for this couple. Is it possible to start over, and build the kind of commitment that will survive the inevitable difficulties?
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October 15, 2023
“Balancing is always interruptive. It interferes with comfort. It interferes with personal ways, with familiar patterns of thinking, familiar feelings.“ Dialogue 1 Relationship: addressing naivety and blindness Patterns live in support of each other; open to the hooks Integrating the left and right…
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August 6, 2023
“You, at home as nothing, in nothing, with nothing. All that’s left of you is that you’re home.” Let your heart show; reducing your personality to the real An “un-guy”; you have no idea what kind of guy to be Hooking up a…
In this meeting, John shares with a married couple the key to real relationship, and how to be and move together in the richness that lies just beneath their personalities.
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July 2, 2023
“A real relationship is about moving together, which can only occur if you’re both coming from the same place and moving in the same direction.” Inexperienced clarity: a lovely clarity lacking wisdom Entering relationship; what innocence cannot see Self-schooled innocence weighs advantage and disadvantage…
