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The Cost of Cutting Yourself Off from Others

March 7, 2000 @ 12:00pm

How can you be around people you care for, but don't agree with? Dissociation only manifests more separation, and John shares how to stay connected.

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605 – The Cost of Cutting Yourself Off from Others

How can you be around people you care for, but don't agree with? Dissociation only manifests more separation, and John shares how to stay connected.

604 – Broken Relationship: The Kindness of a Hundred-Year Perspective

Imagine looking at the the pain of a lost relationship from the kindness of a hundred-year perspective. New possibilities will open, and John explains.

603 – Your Deepest, Most Delicate Belonging

The sense of entering the second half of life is sharpening this person's focus on what matters most, and raising some fundamental questions.

602 – Honest to the Core: Oneness in the Midst of Separation

A deep dive into the power of profound honesty to make oneness as reachable as going to sleep – without actually falling asleep.

601 – Don't Go Figure, Go Sweetly Within

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600 – Out of Your Comfort Zone, Into Your Heart

A perplexing and destructive habit is the focus of this dialogue. What could be so threatening about being touched by goodness?

599 – Parenting: What Your Child Really Wants from You

John responds to a mother's wish to understand why her young daughter still seems unhappy, despite her best efforts at parenting.

598 – The Person, the Self and the Being: Identifying the Many Levels of You (Part 2)

This dialogue is a continuation of last week's podcast 597. John speaks about what ego is, the power we have to create mystery to conceal what is clear, and what takes us deeper than personal integrity.

597 – The Person, the Self and the Being: Identifying the Many Levels of You (Part 1)

Person, self, being … what's the difference and what is real? Using different analogies, John explains how our different levels connect and shares the code to being what we really are.

596 – Beyond Sadness and Pain: Happy Without a Reason

John reveals the source of the deep well of sadness and pain this person carries, and shares how she can reconnect with her original happiness.

595 – When a Crumb of Truth in Your Heart is Your Home

John responds to a spiritual dilemma: a desperate longing for realization, coupled with the fear of nothingness that seems to come with it.

594 – Fully Present in Your Body, Fully Present in Your Heart

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