“As the sentiments of loyalty to family pass away, what replaces the old form of family is a functional, clear goodness team where everything is for what is more than each other.”
“When you know what you belong to, everything that is in your power, everything that is yours, belongs to what you know you belong to. The cost or the benefit isn’t relevant. When it comes to knowing, the opportunity for what you are as awareness is always and absolutely greater than the cost.”
“If you’re not taking to heart the tiny little bit within, then don’t follow your heart. Take to heart the tiny little bit within and you must follow your heart.”
“Make your marriage not short of what meaning is, while you are in your conditioned sensitivities, and you’ve got it: marriage breathing meaning instead of marriage in some way breeding conditioning. Seriously, don’t breed, make love.”
“What you are in your forms, what you are in your living, directly determines what you are after your living. In that way, what you are in the present is your future.”
“When you are in the bond and together, disagreement is communion. The two of you being of the same, even when you’re not of the same mind.”
“Blessed be the planting of your self within ground that cannot die.”
“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”
– John de Ruiter
