What is the deepest, truest place for a man in lovemaking? What is the real value of that union between a man and a woman? A dive into deeper sexuality, this talk will take you all the way to where man and woman are the same, and then all the way back up into the surface, where lovely differences flower in a way that isn’t possible without it being from the innermost outwards. Love with forms, all of them. It’s magical and the result is magical. It’s a love absorption.
What is the deepest, truest place for a man in lovemaking? What is the real value of that union between a man and a woman? A master class in deeper sexuality, this talk will take you all the way to where man and woman are the same, and then all the way back up into the surface, where lovely differences flower in a way that isn’t possible without it being from the innermost outwards. Love with forms, all of them. It’s a little like two babies loving each other. It’s magical and the result is magical. It’s a love absorption.
Children and young adults ask about family, life, love and spiritual awakening/spirituality.
In this Q&A dialogue the questioner asks about a magical experience that occurred while meditating, and John explains it’s not really about the meditation but that she shifted into the magicalness of innocence, of how she was when she was really little.
• It’s not about meditation or techniques – anything you use you make stronger, If you use a technique, you make it stronger. You can’t use anything of your self or any tool to return to innocence. The self is meant to express your innocence, what you really are.
• If you want to make it difficult, use techniques and employ a spiritual path.
• It is as direct, simple and really lovely as it was for you when you still moved in your innocence. All the codes are in you. You don’t need a tool to enable those codes. Your return to those codes activates them. It’s your return to what you know the truth of in your heart without any help from your self.
Opening to magical dustings.In this connection the questioner describes an experience he has of another dimension opening within him.
“Your whole make-believe garden that exists in your interior – all put together by you, adopted from others – all of that needs to pass away for you to have a real garden of meaning within.”
“The most powerful opening of your brain and your nervous system is reserved for your being becoming physical.”
“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”
– John de Ruiter
