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The Healing Power Of Tenderness

August 31, 2000

Q: My daughter is seventeen years old and I’m wondering what I can do for the best to heal the ways she may have been hurt by us whilst growing up. How can we parents become truly one with our children for everyone’s sake? John: By letting tenderness replace

Nurturing Your Child's Goldenness

June 2, 2018

Q: My question is to do with my daughter. Sometimes I think I’m too judgmental and don’t accept her personality. I’m always thinking about what others think of her, wanting her to be a certain way. It’s hard for me to accept that she has her own way and

A Deeper Level Of Parenting: Awakening Your Child's Interior

February 21, 2015

Q: I have a question about my eleven-year-old son. He has some difficulties in school. It seems that regular school is not right for him and I’m looking at others. How do you see the importance of the school years? Am I doing more than I should, or not

Mothering From Your Unadorned Heart

September 11, 2011

Q: I would like to deepen the connection between me and my child, and be more aware in it. Can you help me to do that? John: Be really seen. Reveal your heart and give your heart without embellishment, so that when you’re giving your heart, your heart given

Supporting Your Child Through Divorce

March 29, 2015

Q: How can I best support my daughter through her parents’ splitting-up and through all the changing outer circumstances, like moving house? John: By enjoying her. Q: “Enjoying” … do you mean loving? John: “Loving” can become complicated. Q: What do you mean by that? John: If you enjoy

Living Your Life From The Deepest Peace Within

November 26, 2016

Q: If I’m true in what my heart is wanting and desiring, it’s to have a child. It’s probably been six years since I’ve had a partner and I’m forty-four next month. I’m wondering whether to do it on my own, with insemination. I feel this strong desire and

How To Connect With Your Autistic Child

June 6, 2014

Q: One of the happiest people I know is my eight-year-old grandson, who is autistic. He is so creative in what he does, but he often plays entirely on his own. I’m wondering if autism is a defense against the world? It occurred when he was about two years

Empowering Your Child’s Deeper Abilities

April 30, 2016

Q: I want to ask you about my son. He’s so pure and kind, and he’s very sensitive. He accepts simple boundaries, like when it’s time to go to bed or to do his homework, but he can also be extremely reactive and pressured. A recent example of this

Move with Clarity, but Hold it Lightly

March 29, 2014

Q: I hope to get more ability and clarity. I saw that I took my self to heart for a long time and I feel embarrassing and awkward. John: Instead of feeling embarrassed and awkward in your self, with a little shift you can be sweetly embarrassed and sweetly

Solitude and Clarity

February 8, 2015

Q: I experienced that I wasn’t in this room any more. I just experienced that it went very deep and I wasn’t in this room anymore. Can you explain to me what that is? John: You not being in your self. Q: After my other talk with you where I

Don’t Miss Your Life

September 13, 2014

Q: My question is about having children. I feel when I look around the world that the real conflicts come from relationships that have children, and dealing with the difficulties that come with them. John: There isn’t actually any conflict in that. Q: If you are where you are! Most

Deepening A Child’s Fascination

October 27, 2013

Q1: We have a teenager who spends far too much time than is helpful for him on computer games, and we’d love him to consider the negative impact it’s having on him and the family. I’ve thought a lot about what you said about reading him, and I am

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