• Reverse-engineering your own recovery
• Most delicate meaning for two becomes a pulse of one
• Building with the tiniest goodness blocks
• The light at the highest level
• Profoundly complementary
• Setting the terms on the most delicate; nurture with accountability
• Crisp goodness instead of meaningless compromise
• Knowing your finest perspective, sustaining your finest perspective
• Addressing every lack, imbalance or distortion
• Seeing, conceptualizing, communicating: unstoppable realness
• Cultivating an advantage for realness
• The knower distinguishes priorities and value
• Always sorting, integrating, containing and delivering what you are
• Benevolence setting boundaries, terms and invitations
• Delicate beingness, unbending straightness, absolute backbone
• Meaningful terms delicately administered
• Judicious love, profound togetherness
• Most gentled and tender brokenness
• Being the loveliness instead of just having it
• True beingness within the experience of persons
• Benevolent self-control instead of you controlling benevolence
• Giving away your island
• Realizing resources within yourself
• Benevolent sparring instead of counterfeit misuse
• Sweetie realness
• Realness having delicate control
• The place for humor
• Addressing the very foundations
• Getting it so beautifully right: your ability and your clarity
• Integrating the ‘dearling’
• Being knowing together’
• Weaning both from what each is holding
• Profound and pointed kindness
• Intimate knowing instead of a personal foundation
• Your potential as awareness
• Awareness moves inwards by knowing, outwards by thinking
• Meaning to knowing to awareness
• Your calling – spanning your innermost through to your outermost
• Everything matters …
“My sole purpose is to be, in life, what we are after we’ve died. Through openness and softness of heart and core-splitting honesty at any personal cost, I live as that while actualizing the same in others I meet. I am available as a resource for anyone who recognizes and values this way of being.”
– John de Ruiter
