May 30, 2017
Establishing Boundaries in a Relationship
Excerpt from a dialogue with John de Ruiter on June 30, 2016 Q: How can I discern how and when…
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February 21, 2017
Dealing with Stress in Relationship: A Softer Heart, Not a Bigger Hammer
Excerpt from a dialogue with John de Ruiter on April 28, 2010 Q: We have a lot of stress at…
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January 16, 2017
Building a Bomb-Proof Relationship
Excerpt from a dialogue with John de Ruiter on September 11, 2016 Q: I am wondering whether a relationship I…
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October 16, 2015
Without a Relationship and One with Your Being
Excerpt from a dialogue with John de Ruiter on April 16, 2015 Q: I’ve only seen you once, on video,…
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April 24, 2015
The Growing Beauty of Containment
Excerpt from a dialogue with John de Ruiter on April 7, 2015 Q1: As we will be away from the country,…
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March 6, 2015
Your Baby Needs Your Relationship
Excerpt from a dialogue with John de Ruiter on April 2, 2012 (more…)
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October 31, 2014
No Longer Determined by Your Past
Excerpt from a dialogue with John de Ruiter on July 1, 2014 Q: When I see couples here, and what they…
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July 11, 2014
Lean into Any Little Bit of Dearness
Excerpt from a discussion with John on June 30, 2013 Q: I’ve been feeling that I’m in a lot of difficulty.…
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June 20, 2014
Constancy and Warmth in Any Self
Excerpt from a discussion with John on March 23, 2014 Q1: Things are better with my daughter. John: It’s better between…
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May 16, 2014
Held by a fine Heart-String
Excerpt from a discussion with John on April 18, 2014 Q: I really loved what you said about love, before…
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