Search Results for: attraction
VOD
December 30, 2023
“Attraction and aversion block the entrance to real movement.” Let all of your self align and be in the light All of your feeling is freed for the real The deepest you mastering the rest of you You can’t know your self through…
Q1: Is there anything in particular about being young that people here need to take care of? Or is there anything you would say about being young? John: When you’re young, the polarity in your self isn’t seasoned. Q1: Do you mean you’re not further down…
Excerpts from two cafe conversations on building a real relationship: Q: I am wondering whether a relationship I am in is real, and whether we’re a match. Can you help me figure this out? John: To simplify it, stay away from being sexually physical….
VOD
October 6, 2020
“In this attraction of a most unusual kind, unknown love intimately grounds in you, shares everything, gives everything. Unknown love becomes personal with you.” * Online Interactive Meeting Oneness is made of tender intimate dependency Love. Delicate love. Sweet love. Right into unknown love….
Frequently Asked Questions Meetings and Events How can I meet John de Ruiter? In-person events are held in Edmonton and at Midnight Sky. For more information on in-person events see the event calendar. Interactive Livestreams are held via Zoom. Visit John de Ruiter TV for…
VOD
January 11, 2020
“Deeper sexuality cleans by virtue of what it is – it’s clean. It’s clean of all attraction and aversion. It cleans you of attraction and aversion, not in sexuality, but as your deeper sexuality moves, it cleans everything.” A simple equation: being in the…
Q: Can sex be a pure expression of love? Whenever I have a relationship and it involves sex, something always goes wrong. I don’t know how to solve this. John: By being in your sexuality without connecting the movement of your sexual energy to…
Q: What is the real purpose of sexual relationship? John: The perfect communion of you as a being, through all of your heart, including all of your self and all of your body. Sexuality is the engine of humanness. It belongs to your being,…
Q: I love the truth of what I am beyond my preferences. I can see my inner face in yours and it’s like being in open sunshine. How can I open more to my shadows – those parts of me that I’ve separated from?…
Q: Sexuality has been a challenge for me my whole life. You have spoken about the fire of sexuality. I know a little of that, but for many years it hasn’t felt like that at all. I’ve experienced reduced potency and this has created…
VOD
July 4, 2018
“Conductivity is what we’re here for, what we are developmentally here for. It’s how we develop as beings within our self-field. For anyone here, instead of noticing what is liked or disliked, what takes place within the questioner in the chair, what is noticed,…
